NFP_Natural Family Planning

Our Bishops admonished us (thru their prayer rallies) to "CONTROL OURSELVES IN BED"... that we should have discipline and self control... with these, they mean to use the CHURCH-SANCTIONED natural family planning methods....

In short, they dont want us to use CONDOMS, pills and the likes... pwede ra daw ang Calendar method... dapat may disiplina ang mga couples. With this, they mean that we only do the 'ger-ger' (..sorry..) during our wife's infertile days... they mean to put my libido 'on hold' during those 'inconvenient' times...

Im sorry...bagan kalisod an gusto nan mga bishop... but if they say that we should have discipline by confining our libido within the confines of marriage... its okay...

But to control the couples urge to have sex to strengthen the romantic appeal and physical attraction toward each other...

How about those couples who have living arrangements that simply can not apply 'scheduled' sex during the womans infertile days? im talking about mga balikbayans from abroad who have been working abroad for 3 straight years and have the chance to go home for at least one month? Do they have to wait for those infertile days?

I agree with Rina David... to the prelates who, by the way have taken their vow of celibacy - JUST BUTT OUT OF OUR SEX LIVES..